How to Choose a Mediator
The right of self-determination in mediation, and the parties’ first attempt at collaboration, starts from the decision to mediate (if not mandated by an agreement, order, or statute), and from the act of choosing an appropriate mediator. Their right to self-determination on the issue of choosing a mediator, whether that choice is based on cost, qualification, experience, ability, effectiveness, or on any other basis, is critical to framing the mediation and to their hopes of success. Therefore, it is very important that the mediating participants are comfortable with the choice and that they are confident that the mediator of choice will be able to help them resolve their dispute in an effective, compassionate, and thoughtful way, and at a reasonable price. If there is any degree of discomfort, regardless of the reason, it is the right decision to look for another mediator. Here are some of the issues the mediating parties should consider as they consider who to choose as their mediator:
The mediator should have more than one tool in his/her tool belt. If he/she only has a hammer, then he/she may only see nails. For example, your mediator should be knowledgeable and skilled at various conflict resolution models, including, but not limited to the following:
The Thomas-Kilman Conflict Resolution Model – The mediator should understand the conflict between negotiating parties’ desire to satisfy their own interests and concerns, and the interests and concerns of their counter-part. This requires an understanding of the five basic conflict resolution styles used, the pros and cons of using them, and how to help the parties navigate from one to the other. The five styles are: 1) Competition; 2) Avoidance; 3) Accommodation; 4) Compromise; and 5) Collaboration. A skilled mediator will be able to recognize the style being used and help the parties move from Competition to Collaboration, which dramatically increases the likelihood of reaching an agreement at mediation.
The Conflict House Model – The mediator should understand how to help the parties have difficult conversations in a constructive way without alienating each other with trigger words or acts, attacks, micro-aggressions, etc… Using this model, a skilled mediator will be able to help the parties, and their lawyers, set a constructive and positive tone before the mediation starts in a confidential pre-mediation conference. Done effectively, on the date of the mediation, the parties can avoid derailing the mediation, and the opportunity to reach an agreement, at the beginning of the process.
The Empathy Model – The mediator should understand how to help the parties recognize their inherent empathy for the other parties, and build on that empathy and understanding. If done effectively, throughout the process the increased empathy will help the parties focus on the critical underlying interests, as opposed to positions. This also accelerates the potential for an agreement.
The Value Creation Model – The mediator should understand how to help the parties use the information they know about each other, and that they learn during the mediation process, to create a value proposition that will help the mediating parties do the jobs they have to do regarding the conflict, reduce the pains experienced, and increase the opportunities for the mediating parties to get the gains they want.
The Speed of Trust Model – The mediator should understand that trust has several waves, including self-trust, relationship trust, organizational trust, market trust, and societal trust, and how to help the parties demonstrate: 1) their integrity while acknowledging the other side’s integrity; 2) their intent in a constructive way while seeking to understand the other side’s intent without attacking or feeling attacked; 3) their capabilities and the other’s side’s capabilities, and hone in on the relevance; and 4) the ability to produce results on both sides, which is critical to an effective mediation agreement.
The Behavioral Model – The mediator should understand how his/her behavior and the behavior of the mediating participants affect the mediation process, and consciously work towards modeling the right behaviors, and encouraging the same with the mediating parties. Here is a list of the behaviors:
Taking Straight
Demonstrating Respect
Creating Transparency
Righting Wrongs
Showing Loyalty
Delivering Results
Getting Better
Confronting Reality
Clarifying Expectations
Practicing Accountability
Listening First
Keeping Commitments
Extending Trust
Inspiring Trust
The Action Plan Model – The mediator should understand how to help the parties create a reasonable and workable action plan.
The Transformative Model – The mediator should be able to help the parties transform from feeling victimized to feeling empowered during the mediation process. This is critical, as mediation is based on self-determination. A good mediator will understand how to help the parties transition from the feeling of being a victim to the feeling of empowerment, which helps them move from competition to avoidance, to accommodation, to compromise, then finally to collaboration, which may mean that the mediator has to be skilled at helping the parties move through the 5 steps necessary to get there.
The mediator should have a high degree of emotional intelligence. The mediator should be able to regulate his/her own behavior in such a way as to take a leadership role during the mediation, understand how to regulate his/her relationship with the parties and their counsel, and help the parties regulate their relationship so that they do not alienate each other, but work constructively towards a common resolution.
The mediator should have relevant and extended experience as a mediator. A novice mediator, including a mediator who is transitioning into mediation as a second career (such as a retiring attorney or retiring judge), usually does not have the knowledge, skills, experience, and abilities to be as effective as a mediator who has been mediating for several years. In their professional life cycle as a mediator, they are, in essence, baby mediators. While these mediators may have the core subject matter knowledge and experience, they still need to develop their mediation knowledge, skills, and abilities to be effective. Ideally, the mediator should be entering the prime of his/her professional career as a mediator.
A mediator with some gravitas can be useful. An experienced attorney, a retiring attorney or retiring judge may have the gravitas built up from their years of experience and/or former profession, which can be helpful to instill a sense of confidence in the parties and their lawyers. This gravitas can be especially helpful in cases where the parties are looking for “parental” guidance in the processor will rely on the mediator for an evaluative approach.
Consider the value of using a mediator that will give you the best chances of resolving your dispute before going to court. Paying a “good” mediator a higher rate before litigation can save tens of thousands of dollars in litigation costs. A day of mediation can cost the parties approximately $2,000.00 each with an experienced mediator who charges $500.00 per hour, whereas prosecuting and defending a lawsuit usually ranges, at the low end, $25,000.00 in lawyers’ fees, plus costs (including another mediation before trial). Litigation costs can easily exceed $100,000.00, depending on many factors, before a final resolution. In addition to the financial costs, there are emotional costs, lost opportunities (opportunity costs), and loss of time, and relationship loss, which can compound the “expense” of litigation.
When lawyers in a case choose the mediator the lawyers should fight the urge to use a colleague or friend as a mediator because of their personal or professional relationship, and should, instead, focus on the above factors, and other relevant factors such as subject matter expertise.
For more information on how to choose the right mediator for your case, how to become a mediator, or how to develop the knowledge and skills you need to be effective in mediation, please email me at attorneypersad@cplspa.com. I am also available to mediate your cases.
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Future Pacing – Working on the New You
“Failing to plan is planning to fail” – Benjamin Franklin
Entrepreneurial and life goals coincide in ways many other goals do not. For entrepreneurs, their life goals are tied to their entrepreneurial dreams, and these goals take the entrepreneur and her family for the ride of their lives. At the beginning of the journey a flood of positive emotions of hope, dreams of making it, feeling of independence, and excitement engulf the entrepreneur. In the first leg of the journey, some pain sets in as the realization of the limitations on resources set in; time, money, necessary relationships, are just three of the hurdles entrepreneurs face during this stage. In the second stage of the journey, the entrepreneur starts to experience enhanced pain and doubt raises its ugly head. If the entrepreneur does not have a good consultant or coach to help navigate the phases of the entrepreneurial process, the doubt grows into a crippling fear, devastating the entrepreneur and, many times, family members.
Future Pacing – YOU 2.0
Skilled consultants and coaches have many tools in their tool belts to help budding and seasoned entrepreneurs. One of the most important tool is FUTURE PACING the entrepreneur to help her create a vision of herself 10 years into the future (YOU 2.0), and helping her build a bridge from now to then. Since the entrepreneur’s business is usually an integral part of her vision of herself, it is necessarily included in the journey from YOU 1.0 to YOU 2.0.
The process begins with the consultant/coach helping the entrepreneur create a detail vision of YOU 2.0 self. This includes the creation of an avatar for the entrepreneur that encompasses her YOU 2.0 physical self, emotional self, spiritual self, the knowledge she has accumulated, the relationships she has, her home, her business, her skills, and everything else that she envisions herself being. Once done, the consultant/coach helps the entrepreneur to reinforce this idea of her YOU 2.0 so that it become her life ultimate mission. The process then turns to an assessment of the entrepreneur’s personal development matrix, so that she can take an honest look at herself. The matrix analyzes the entrepreneur’s core knowledge, skills, abilities, disciplines, dedication, focus, beliefs, values, health, experiences, rules and relationship with herself. The result is usually a clear understanding of the entrepreneur’s personal strengths and weaknesses. This can be an eye-opening process for entrepreneurs, and serve as a “reality check.” Simply put, if you do not know where you are, it does not matter where you are going.
After the personal assessment is complete, the consultant/coach then helps the entrepreneur focus on developing a current relationship matrix. The focus here is primarily external with a focus on the entrepreneur’s relationships, finances, physical assets, other resources, opportunities, and external threats or roadblocks.
With a good understanding of the entrepreneur’s current state, the consultant/coach can then move onto helping develop a future identity, her YOU 2.0 (usually 5 to 10 years in the future). Once this future identity is developed, and the entrepreneur has a vivid image of her future self, she works with the consultant/coach to set reasonable and realistic goals each month and year (with yearly themes) which, once achieved, will get her that much closer to her YOU 2.0. As she travels through the process, she transforms into the version of herself she sees, and consistently re-evaluates her YOU 2.0, upgrading her model self annually, chasing her future with relentless passion.
This passion and thirst for growth and development spills over into the entrepreneur’s business and family, so they all grow together, consistently helping each other reach their YOU 2.0.
Future pacing is just one of the planning tools offered by Business and Executive Coaching Consultants at CPLS, P.A. as a part of our Private Corporate Counsel program. If you would like to learn more or set up a consultation, give us a call at 407.647.7887 or email me at Attorneypersad@cplspa.com.
What is a Default and What Does it Mean in the Family Law Context?
In Florida, as in most states, before a Court can take action on a legal case, the Judge must ensure the other party has, at a minimum, received notice of the lawsuit. Once a lawsuit is filed, the Clerk of Court will issue a summons that directs the party filing the lawsuit to service notice of the lawsuit on the opposing party. That document will specify to the party being sued that they must respond to the lawsuit by filing a written Answer within twenty days of being served. In most cases, the person being sued will respond to the lawsuit by filing a written answer that contests the allegations raised in the lawsuit and the relief being sought. But what happens if the party being sued does nothing and does not file any written answer?
In most cases, if the other party receives notice, and proof of this notice is filed with the Court, usually by way of an affidavit of service provided by a licensed process server, then the Clerk of Court, or the Judge, can enter a Default again that party. Once a default has been entered, all well-plead allegations contained with the petition are deemed true and the Court may proceed to enter a Final Judgment in the case. At that final hearing, the Court can take testimony on the uncontested allegations in the petition and enter a Final Judgment. In family cases specifically, where children are involved, the Court must make factual findings related to the best interests of the children before entering a Final Judgment.
In many cases, after a default, or even a Final Judgment, is entered, the other party may try to enter the case and contest the validity of the Default or Judgment. In that situation, the question becomes, can that party still be heard on the merits of the lawsuit?
In short, the answer, many times, is yes, particularly in family law cases. Upon the filing of a sufficient motion, the Florida Rules of Civil Procedure state that the Court may set aside a default or judgment upon the showing of the one of following: (1) Excusable neglect; (2) Newly discovered evidence; (3) Fraud, misrepresentation, or other misconduct of an adverse party; (4) That the judgment or decree is void; or (5) That the judgment or decree has been satisfied, released, or discharged, or a prior judgment which it is based has been reversed or otherwise vacated, or it is no longer equitable. While the burden to prove these elements is on the party seeking to set aside the default or judgment, the leading case law on these issues say that defaults should be set aside liberally. This follows the general policy that lawsuits should be determined on their merits and not on legal technicalities. If you have any questions about how a default can affect your case, it is important to consult with an experienced attorney right away, as the passage of time can be a factor in the setting aside of a default.
Attorney Russell J. Frank is a partner at CPLS, P.A., and a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediation who focuses his practice areas on family and marital law. Contact Attorney Frank today at rfrank@cplspa.com to discuss any family or marital legal issues you may be experiencing.
Plagues, pandemics, Magna Carta and 2020 . . .
The Magna Carta created jury trials, grand juries, and abolished “trial by ordeal” in 1215. A century later, the Black Plague swept all of Europe. Thus “A Jury of Our Peers” has been the hallmark of justice for more than 4 centuries before the founding of these United States. Today, a new worldwide pandemic is challenging our notion of liberty.
A client asked recently whether we were seeing a recession due to the COVID-19 pandemic. Truthfully, many lawyers are busier than ever, though not necessarily with new work. Each court in each different county or circuit has set up specific procedures for handling cases. Some courts, immediately set up video conferencing for hearings; others took a bit more time to explore options. Orange County is in the Ninth Circuit while Seminole County is in the 18th Circuit. Each has a different procedure and both vary in how they handle hearings.
Criminal courts in all areas had largely instituted video conferencing for first appearance years ago, but with a pandemic the larger problem is how to provide safe and secure access for those arrested to meet privately with their attorney. All courts in Florida, the Supreme Court, District Courts of Appeal, Circuit and County Courts have been wrestling with how to assure the safety of the public, how to prevent exposure from those infected, how to protect the rights of those accused of crimes and how to protect the due process to assure fair and just hearings. Jury trials are being scheduled but may not occur until 2021 or later. This places our entire judicial system in peril.
Family attorneys began using Collaborative methods is not always easy, but using a team concept and keeping decisions about your family within your control makes collaboration effective in Central Florida. Using Zoom meetings, for coaches, clients and professionals to work out all the details before even filing can allow a much more controllable process and keep the outcome well within your needs.
Divorcing spouses often have difficulty trusting one another, and unfortunately our courts’ adversarial proceedings in litigation tend to further erode openness and trust by encouraging spouses to fight not only for their own interests but also against the interests of their spouse. When Collaboration occurs, the family’s needs are addressed by professionals and the spouses do not have to “trust” the litigation. They only have to trust the professional who are the guardians of the process. The Collaborative Process works, even in pandemic times and 2020.
Pandemics lead to change. How much change occurs depends on your choices and may be impacted by the choices of those around you. Wash your hands; wear a mask; take care of yourself and others. Peace.
Attorney Aubrey Ducker is a partner at CPLS, P.A., and a member of the Firm’s Family and Elder Law Practice Groups. Contact Attorney Ducker today at aducker@cplspa.com to discuss any family or marital legal issues you may be experiencing.
Top 5 Things to Know when Choosing a Mediator
1. Experience Matters
When choosing what mediator may fit best with the issues in your family law case, it is important to find a mediator with a proven record of success in resolving cases. Most mediators are chosen as a result of the relationship they have built with the attorneys in the community. If you have retained an attorney for your family law case, then it is likely your attorney has several mediators they have worked with in the past and would likely recommend a mediator based on their past experiences with that particular mediator. If you do not have an attorney, or your attorney is not familiar with proven mediators, then it becomes even more important to do your homework and research as much as you can about the mediators in your area who may be the right fit for your case.
2. Legal knowledge matters
It is important to know that to be a family law mediator in Florida does not require a law license. In fact, there are qualified professionals, such as psychologists, counselors, and other mental health experts, that have been certified by the Florida Supreme Court in family law mediation, just like attorneys. So depending on the issues in your case it is possible you will want to consider using someone that has a non-legal background. If financial or other legal-intensive issues are not the top priority, but rather if deciding child-related issues are of the utmost importance, then it may make sense to use a mental health professional that is sensitive to the issues involving children and co-parenting. If, however, there are complex financial or legal issues, then having a non-attorney mediator may not be your best option.
3. Demeanor matters
Having a mediator that respects the parties, their positions and the attorneys is very important to having a successful mediation. If one party feels that the mediator is not acting in a neutral way, or has the appearance that they are favoring one side over the other, then it is likely that would have a negative effect on the mediation and it would be unlikely that the case would resolve by way of mediation with that particular mediator. It is of vital importance to have a mediator that you feel comfortable with, is open to hearing both sides and does not choose sides during a mediation.
4. Location matters
Believe it or not, sometimes the location of the mediation itself can determine whether or not a mediation will be successful. Mediations can occur just about anywhere, including an attorney’s office or a more neutral location, such as the mediator’s office. In some cases, parties may not be comfortable going to mediation at the opposing attorney’s office, so it is important to consider these issues when scheduling your mediation.
5. Costs Matter
One of the first questions I usually get from my clients is, “How much is mediation going to cost?” In order to gauge the costs, it is important to understand that there are two types of mediations, a courthouse mediation and a private mediation. Usually, the difference between the two comes down to how much money the parties make. If the parties make less than $100,000 in combined gross income, then they would qualify to have a reduced cost mediation offered through the courthouse and would pay a total of $60 to $120 for a three-hour mediation. If the parties’ combined gross income is greater than $100,00, then they would need to find a private mediator to mediate their case, and those costs will generally run anywhere from $100 to $350 per hour, with usually a two or three-hour minimum. When it comes to mediation and private mediation, in particular, it is important to remember that if you do resolve your case through mediation, then the costs you spend for that mediation would be a drop in the bucket compared to what you might spend for a full-blown trial to litigate all of the issues in your family law case.
Attorney Russell J. Frank is a partner at CPLS, P.A., and a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediation who focuses his practice areas on family and marital law. Contact Attorney Frank today at rfrank@cplspa.com to discuss any family or marital legal issues you may be experiencing.
Mediation and Negotiation Tip
Number 2
Emotions and Value Creation.
Emotions are prevalent in every negotiation setting, whether or not the parties use a mediator to help facilitate the process. Learning how to identify our emotions and our negotiating counterparts’ emotions, how to categorize the emotions, and how to strategically use these emotions can give you an advantage during the negotiation process and help you create value for yourself and your counter-part. Generally, emotions can be broadly categorized as either positive or negative. Positive emotions include feelings that serve you well, including happiness, laughter, joyfulness, excitement, hopefulness, etc.
Negative emotions include feelings that can can serve you well at times but often does not, including anger, anxiety, fear, etc… Before you engage in any negotiation, you should take time to assess your own emotions and what you know about the emotions of your negotiation counterparts. To assess your own emotions, ask yourself questions which force you to think about how you have reacted to questions, scenarios, and experiences in the past. For example: How do I behave under pressure? What do I feel when X happens? How do I react to Y? To assess your counterparts’ emotions, ask similar questions to people who have interacted with them in the past, including the receptionist at their firm, their secretary, co-workers, prior customers, etc.
If you do not have access to anyone who has interacted with them in the past, call them and test their emotions with trigger questions or scenarios. With this information in hand, prepare for your negotiation by envisioning varying scenarios during the negotiation process, and plan how you will use your emotions to your advantage and how you can trigger the required emotions from your negotiation counterparts. For example, at the beginning of the negotiation, you may decide to be warm and friendly to catalyze positive emotions in yourself and your negotiation counterparts, as it will be natural for them to mirror your emotions. Since value creation usually occurs early on in the negotiation process, this technique can set the stage for value creation early. At the later stages of the negotiation process, consider using a negative emotion as a strategy to help you claim more value, as negotiators tend to give more concessions to parties who express anger, even if not genuine.
Finally, throughout the negotiation process look for signs of how your negotiation counterparts use their emotions. Are they being as strategic as you, or are they unable to understand and control their emotions? If the latter is true, all you have to do is identify what triggers their positive and negative emotions and strategically trigger these emotions to get the results you desire. If you trigger positive emotions, stroke these emotions in a manner that encourages them to see the commonality of their needs and interests to your needs and interest and encourage them to help you meet your needs and further your interests, which will help them in the long run. If you trigger negative emotions, demonstrate your understanding of their concerns and feel their pain by empathizing with them, when appropriate, and show them how they can help meet their need and further their interests by helping you meet your needs and helping you further your interests.
You can contact Attorney Tee Persad at 407-647-7887 or email him at attorneypersad@cplspa.com when you are ready to take the next step.
Mediation and Negotiation Tip
Number 1
Active Listening.
When we have disagreements or are negotiating with each other, most of us can’t wait for the other party to stop talking so that we state our position or argument. Sometimes we interrupt the other party to get our position or argument heard. In the worst case scenario, we expressly discount the other side and insist that he/she listen to us. I truly cannot remember one instance where this technique has worked. Instead, try actively listening to the other party by listening carefully effectively. This can be done by repeating back what you understand from them (what they said, what they want, what they claim, etc…). Then, inquire about their motivations and assumptions behind their claims. Finally, acknowledge their positions.
By following this process, you will be able to collect valuable information from them, test your beliefs and assumptions (which may or may not be accurate), eliminate misunderstandings, and foster mutual understanding. Also, when they observe your behavior, strategy and technique, they will learn from you and mirror your behavior, further promoting mutual understanding. This process also forces you and them to account for any difficult tactics either of you have employed. The end result is that you are both more likely to avoid losing important information, acting on wrong assumptions, and damaging your relationship. This, of course, promotes interdependence and mutual growth. Win Win. This strategy and technique is not just helpful in high business conflicts. I can also be used by family members , co-workers, and business partners. Try it and let me know how it works for you and remember, like any other muscle, active listening is a muscle for the mind, the more you practice it, the better you get at it.
You can contact Attorney Tee Persad at 407-647-7887 or email him at attorneypersad@cplspa.com when you are ready to take the next step.
THE SOLO AND SMALL FIRM DILEMMA
(Jobs, Pains, & Dreaming of Gains) By Tee Persad, Esq.
Over the past 10 years, we have been conducting informal research on the life of solo practitioners (“Solos”) and small firm practitioners (“SFPs”). Through this research, we have discovered that solo practitioners and small firm practitioners have similar job expectations, experience similar pains, and want similar gains. Therefore, they need similar resources and opportunities.
1. Solos & SFPs Have Jobs They Have To Do Every day
Solos and SFPs have functional, emotional, social, and business jobs that they do daily. But they tend to focus the majority of their time and effort on the functional jobs, such as file management and administrative matters (accounting, billing, vendor management, employee management, etc….), and on doing the work required on their clients’ cases. However, the emotional, social, and business jobs are also important and often get pushed aside because there is no time left to tend to these jobs, or for the acquisition of the knowledge or development of the skills necessary to handle these important jobs. Solos and SFPs routinely struggle with effectively managing the relationships with key partners, such as their clients, court personnel, opposing counsel, and employees. They also have to manage the stress associated with not enough money, management responsibilities, marketing, technology, and file management. On top of it all, they also have to keep themselves and their teams engaged so that productivity remains consistent and boredom or complacency does not set in. Finally, when the workday is done, they go home and have additional functional, emotional, social, and business jobs at home. Often times these “home jobs” are subordinated to the functional “work jobs.”
2. The Pains that Solos and SFPs Experience Everyday
Solos’ and SFPs’ pains show up on the financial and non-financial costs of running their practice, the barriers to maximizing their potential, bad feelings and thoughts about their situation, and the risks they are forced to take.
Financial Pain. Most financial costs are usually obvious and range from minor costs for Solos who operate out of their home to full-blown operational expenses for Solos and SFPs who operate out of a proper office with adequate staff, physical and electronic resources, and vendor relationships. The financial costs can consume up to 70% of a Solos’ or SFPs’ monthly gross revenue (averaged over a year) but normally falls between 40% and 60%, assuming a properly staffed office. While some Solos’ and SFPs’ expenses may be less than 40% of their average monthly gross revenue, they normally do not account for the non-obvious financial costs, such as opportunity costs. For example, they may be limiting their ability to attract clients who may be able to bring cases that are more lucrative, they may be missing internal referral revenue and other collateral forms of revenue sources that larger firms integrate as a part of their operations. In addition, they may be missing collaboration opportunities with other lawyers that they know, trust, and have a good working relationship with. When the obvious and non-obvious financial costs are factored into the formula, although the percentage they are taking home on average per month may be higher than 60%, it is likely a percentage of a pie that is relatively small. So, the effective monthly costs of their potential net revenue are usually much larger than they realize.
Pain from Roadblocks. Many Solos and SFPs run into roadblocks or barriers on a daily basis. The barriers to entry into their practice include financial and non-financial barriers. Financial barriers include, among other things, the high costs of rent, personnel, file management systems, supplies, and vendor services, all of which are critical to a productive practice. The non- financial barriers include lack of knowledge, skill, and adequate training in the following areas: leadership principles, management principles, business principles, psychology, communication, negotiation, and non-litigation conflict resolution. These roadblocks are limiting too many Solos and SFPs, causing them to miss out on opportunities that may have a strong positive impact on their practice and lives.
Pain from Bad Feelings. Many Solos and SFPs feel like a failure, incompetent, and not good enough to compete with larger firms. They believe that their lack of resources causes the roadblocks they have, that they are limited in their ability to grow and develop, and cannot be as competent as their colleagues in larger firms. After a while, they start to settle for what they believe is within their reach. These feelings and thoughts are limiting too many Solos and SFPs, causing them to miss out on opportunities that may have a strong positive impact on their practice and lives.
Pain from the Difficulties they Experience. Many Solos and SFPs face challenges that their colleagues in larger firms never encounter. First, they have to be owner, operator, CEO, marketing director, IT director, personnel director, firm administrator, and accountant for their practice. This can consume 30% or more of their time. Second, because of their limited resources, they are unable to handle complex matters in their areas of practice. They may also not have the resources to adequately prepare for court hearing and trials. The result is that they have a difficult time doing their functional job to the best of their abilities. Third, because they are bogged down dealing with the functional jobs of the practice, they have a difficult time taking advantage of opportunities to work on interesting cases, advance their practice, market themselves, and grow and develop into the lawyer they envisioned in law school.
Pain from Unnecessary Risks. Solos and SFPs sometimes have to take what cases they can in order to eat; whatever walks through the door. The alternative may mean that they get no clients and they stagnate and consider changing professions. So they choose to “wing it” or risk not being able to feed themselves and their families. The resulting pressures of daily practice may cause them to risk their reputation, compromise their ethical obligations, and increase their risk of committing malpractice, all of which may lead to depression, anxiety, alcohol and other drug abuse, alienation, and, at the extreme end, disbarment.
2 If a Solo grosses $100,000.00 per year and has a minimal overhead of 20%, her take-home net before taxes is $80,000.00. However, when you add in $50,000.00 of potential revenue loss for the same year, even if overhead was 40% of gross revenue, her take-home net before taxes is $90,000.00. Therefore, the value of the opportunity loss is $10,000.00.
3. The Gains That Solos and SFPs Want
Solos and SFPs are constantly searching for opportunities to obtain value or gain things they need to make their lives easier and more fulfilling; they also want to have their expectations met and are delighted when their expectations are exceeded. Some of the gains they consistently search for are:
A. To increase revenue
B. To have more time for client development
C. To have more sources of client development
D. To have resources to market themselves
E. To have clients who are nicer to them, pay their bills, & promote them
F. To have the administrative burden of practicing reduced
G. To reduce financial and non-financial costs of practicing
H. To have systems, processes, and procedures that help them be efficient
I. To be respected and trusted by their peers, clients, and judges
J. To have a well-earned reputation
K. To have the flexibility to work from remote locations in an effective manner
L. To have human resources to help them do their functional jobs
M. To have opportunities to contribute to a cause greater than themselves
N. To be a part of an organization that offers them a sense of community
O. To be a part of a family away from home
P. To recapture and maximize their time
Q. To improve their competence level in their practice area and beyond
R. To have more skills, tools, and resources
S. To reduce their stress level
T. To improve their personal and professional relationships
U. To go on a vacation free from the constraints of their practice
V. To be a part of something bigger them themselves
W. To have their expectations met and exceeded
X. To have certainty about their future
Y. To feel significant to themselves
Z. To have others recognize them as significant people
While there may be opportunities for Solos and SFPs to acquire some of these gains by partnering up with other Solos and trying to create a small firm environment where it is easier to pool resources, the smaller the operation, the less likely is it for these gains to be realized because the economies of scale are usually not available.
HOW DOES THIS RELATE TO YOUR PRACTICE?
(Exercises to help you do your jobs, relieve your practice pains, and get some gains you want and need)
Know your jobs & how to get them done the way they deserve to be done. I encourage you to take the time to think about the functional, emotional, social, and business jobs that you do every day, or that you have to do every day and do not get to. I recommend that you take a full
day to think about this by yourself and ask everyone who works for or with you to do the same. Then, get together to create a master list, then prioritize it and study. Ask your self and your team:
Are we doing all the jobs we need to do, to the best of our ability, with the resources we have available?
Then ask:
Is there a better way we can do our jobs by ourselves?
Then, finally, ask:
Is there anyone we can partner with who can help us do our jobs more timely, cheaply, effectively, and competently than we can do it?
This is a time-intensive exercise. The more comprehensive the list of jobs, and the more detailed the job tasks and responsibilities are, the more thought-provoking it will be, and the more you will get out of this exercise. Although this exercise is not particularly challenging, it deserves the time and effort of large blocks of time so that you can explore your practice deeply. This is not an hour or two-hour exercise. It is a day-long process that deserves your attention. This deep dive will give you the greatest insight into your functional practice and how it affects you emotionally and socially, and, how it affects how the business of your practice operates.
Know the pains you are experiencing and how to relief them without resorting to self-medication. I encourage you to think about the financial pains you and your firm are experiencing. Then, think about the non-financial pains. Be specific about the pains, when you experience them, and how frequently they appear. Think about the costs of running your practice, the barriers you face, the feelings you have, the thoughts you have, the difficulties you experience, and the risks you take. I recommend that you take a full day to think about this by yourself and ask everyone who works for or with you to do the same. Then, get together to create a master list, then prioritize it and study it. Ask your self and your team:
Do we have the resources to minimize or eliminate these pains without resorting to drastic measures that may cause us greater pain?
Then ask:
Is there a better way to minimize or eliminate these pains than what we have been doing or what we plan on doing?
Then, finally, ask:
Is there anyone we can partner with who can help us minimize or eliminate these pains more timely, cheaply, effectively, and competently than we can with our limited resources?
This is a very difficult exercise for several reasons. First, it forces you to confront yourself and your team in a bold and strong way. It forces you to look at your belief structure and how you experience life as a practitioner. It challenges your implicit bias and it helps bring awareness to your cognitive dissonance. Second, it forces you to see how these pains affect you and your team. Some of them are visibly cancerous and affect your practice in specific, but manageable ways, while others are hidden and chronic cancers that have the potential to kill your practice. Finally, it forces you to face reality and seek the help you need before it is too late.
Know the gains you want and need. I encourage you to think about the gains that you want and need. Examine your expectations, your team’s expectations, your client’s expectations, the courts’ expectations, opposing counsels’ expectations, your family’s expectations, and the profession’s expectations. Think about the savings that you would like to have. List the ways you measure success and what success looks like for you. Identify what will make your life easier and what would delight you. Note which ones are absolute needs and which ones are wants and note the difference. Be specific about what you want and need and why you want them or need them. I recommend that you take a full day to think about this by yourself and ask everyone who works for or with you to do the same. Then, get together to create a master list, then prioritize it and study it. Ask your self and your team:
Can we get what we want and need with the resources (time, financial, relationships, physical, personnel, strategic partners, etc…) that we have now?
Then ask:
Is there a better or faster way to get what we want and need than using our resources or using them the way they are being used now?
Then, finally, ask:
Is there anyone we can partner with who can help us get want we want and need more timely, cheaply, effectively, and competently than we can with our limited resources?
This is an exercise that improves your vision of your future self and helps you see “your ghost of Christmas future.” What would life be like if you had everything you wanted and needed? Can you actually identify what you want and need? Can you actually get what you want and need? When you start consciously thinking about what you want and need, the natural tendency is for you to focus on your life’s purpose and how your professional life fits within that purpose. You begin to think about leading yourself and others with a purpose. This could well be one of the first steps towards living a productive and fulfilled life and having a practice that serves you and helps you serve others in a way that not only benefits you and your clients but also others that are affected by your work. This may be the beginning of you realizing the dream of being the lawyer that you had when you were a law student.
I HAVE DONE THE EXERCISE, NOW WHAT?
Whether you are a Solo or SFP, once you have completed the above exercises, use what you have learned to improve your practice. You can do this on your own, with your team, or with a coach. If you put the time and effort into these exercises that they deserve, then you should see remarkable results on how you see yourself, your practice, and your role. You can also expect to notice shifts in your thinking and belief structure which will help you get more focused on what really matters. If you are satisfied with your progress, use these exercises repeatedly (at least once a year) to help you stay focused and on track.
If, after these exercises, you believe you need help, then seek out the help you need. If you choose, I will be happy to be your mentor and coach and help you through the process and give you other tools that will elevate your practice. Please feel free to reach out to me via email atattorneypersad@cplspa.com or call me at 407-647-7887. Another alternative is to make a dramatic change and consider joining a larger Firm that understands these issues and will help you maximize your potential.
CAN CPLS, P.A. HELP ME REDUCE MY PAIN AND GET THE GAINS I NEED AND WANT?
Our Firm’s value proposition is:
We help lawyers increase their focus, competence, and reputation by providing products and services that help stabilize their costs, increase their resources, minimize their risks, and remove barriers. We also provide them with a family of colleagues and staff, forming a community that supports them without reservation. The resulting benefits are that they increase their net take-home revenue (and start to gain financial freedom), recapture time (increasing their flexibility to learn new things and explore new things), and live a more balanced and productive personal and professional life.
We have designed the Firm with one purpose: “to provide an environment where each individual can thrive and optimize their potential.” We take great pride in serving our lawyers so they can develop their leadership abilities and technical knowledge to fulfill their purpose…to serve their valued clients. If you would like to explore being a part of our Firm, please feel free to reach out to me via email at attorneypersad@cplspa.com or call me at 407-647-7887.
We have focused our energies on designing, developing, and operating an organization that provides products and services to lawyers which help them do their jobs, relieve their pains, and gain what they want and need. Here are some of the products, services, and extra mile examples we provide our lawyers:
1. Firm Brand and Reputation – CPLS, P.A. is a trusted brand in the Florida legal community. The Firm has tackled large complex cases, including class action cases, represented foreign government agencies, handled high conflict and profile cases on behalf of divorcing parties and high profile criminal defense cases. Lawyers at the Firm represent international
industry leaders in several disciplines. Its lawyers include board-certified lawyers, retired judges, and lawyers with advanced degrees, all with years of experience in their fields.
2. Positive Firm Culture, Ethos, and Community – We do our best to bring in and retain positive, helpful, kind, hardworking, and competent staff members and lawyers. We do our best to maintain an environment where everyone is happy to be a part of our team and family and to encourage a sense of community and camaraderie between the members of the firm.
3. Managing Partner who Cares about Lawyers – As the Firm’s managing partner, my primary job is to help our lawyers be the best they can be. I work hand in hand with the staff to ensure the lawyers have what they want and need. And I work with the lawyers collectively and individually to help them as needed. Recognizing the value of the members of the Firm, I subordinate my personal interests to the interests of the Firm and its lawyers and staff.
4. Attorney Liaison – Lawyers have access to an attorney liaison, a licensed attorney working for the Firm who helps them when needed. This attorney helps with training and development for the lawyers and legal support staff, helps the lawyers integrate within our system, and is available to step in when necessary to help the lawyers out.
5. Administrative and Accounting Services – In addition to normal accounting functions, all client and vendor accounting matters are handled by an accounting team that is well trained and efficient. They handle all of the billings for the lawyers and work with them to improve collections and maximize their revenue. They provide lawyers with a bi-monthly accounting of all their receipts and expenses so the lawyers can be aware of the results of their efforts timely. They also provide monthly and cumulative reports for the lawyers to track their progress.
6. Client Services – From the minute a prospective client calls the office, a member of our Client Services team greets them with a smile and warm welcome. This team helps manage the clients’ relationships with the lawyer and their legal support staff, processes all incoming and outgoing mail, maintains the integrity of the clients’ physical and electronic files, manages the use of the office space, and assists with special projects. They work hand in hand with the lawyers, legal support staff, and administrative and accounting staff, to ensure that the lawyers’ jobs are done efficiently, timely, and competently. In addition, this team provides concierge services for lawyers.
7. IT Support – With a full-time IT expert on staff, all computer, phone and tablet issues can be resolved very quickly, reducing downtime. Also, the management of the Firm’s electronic systems is not left up to outside vendors.
8. Marketing Support – With a full-time marketing expert on staff, lawyers can have marketing materials developed to help them brand themselves and increase their client base. Promotional materials regarding the Firm, practice areas, and lawyers are available for the lawyers’ use.
9. Class A Office Space on Lake Eola – We occupy the 4th floor of the PNC Bank building located at 201 East Pine Street, Orlando, Florida. We have a beautiful reception overlooking the lake, 7 conference rooms, a training room, and furnished and equipped offices that are designed with the lawyers in mind. The office is accessible to its lawyers 24/7 and is staffed from 7 a.m. to 6 p.m. from Mondays to Fridays.
10. Professional Atmosphere – From the minute you walk into the office, you get a sense of the importance of professionalism and the impact on the Firm’s operations and effectiveness. From the physical layout to the professionalism of its staff, the Firm takes pride in projecting the importance of a professional environment and ethos.
11. Strong Organizational Structure – The organizational level of the firm’s resources, systems, tools, processes, and procedures is superior in the legal industry. From the minute you walk through the doors, you get the sense of the degree of organization and efficiency.
12. Efficient Systems, Processes, and Procedures – We have designed systems, processes, and procedures to help lawyers do their jobs from the initial potential client contact through the closing of a case once representation is concluded. Our processes and procedures help reduce roadblocks and obstacles for the lawyers and help them focus on what matters. The systems, processes, and procedures were designed to be mechanical when necessary and appropriate (e.g., standardized forms, scripts, templates), brain-like when needed (trained staff with knowledge, skill, and discretion to make good decisions when called for), culture like when the context changes (trained staff to understand the cultural nuances of clients, lawyers, court personnel, and vendors so that communication can be effective), and gymnast like when flexibility is important (trained staff who has the discretion to be flexible when required to get the job done).
13. Trained Staff – We have a trained staff of administrative, secretarial/para-professional, clerical, and client services staff whose functions are specialized to ensure consistency and reliability. When new lawyers join our team, oftentimes they bring their own staff members who are integrated into our system and trained to use our systems, processes, and procedures to improve their efficiency and value to the lawyers; often their productivity improves by over 30%.
14. Equipment – Our electronic system allows our lawyers to work anywhere on the globe that has internet access collaboratively with everyone else at the Firm. With access to our remote system, our lawyers have their organized files at their fingertips and can work when they want, where they want. With an assigned voice over IP phone, they can take their extensions with them anywhere and be just an extension away. Phone messages are converted into emails for their easy access.
15. Supplies – We keep the office stocked with the supplies needed to get the job done and to use in court to help lead the judges and opposing counsel. From file organization supplies to job function supplies, to presentation supplies, and form supplies, we provide all the supplies lawyers need to get their jobs done competently and timely.
16. Internal Referral Systems – Our internal referral systems ensure that all of our clients’needs are met and lawyers receive credit and are compensated for client origination. As lawyers speak at local, statewide, and national events, the Firm gets recognized and receives referrals
from time to time. In addition, the Firm actively markets on the internet. Potential clients from these sources are referred to internally.
17. Collaboration Opportunities – Lawyers are encouraged to collaborate on matters when necessary. This helps foster strong relationships and growth and development while ensuring that clients get the best representation possible. It also allows lawyers to collaborate on more complex and large matters.
18. Supplemental Passive Income Opportunities – The Firm has designed passive income producing programs that lawyers can participate in and supplement the income earned on matters they actively work on.
19. Coverage – When lawyers go on vacation or have conflicts in their calendar, other lawyers at the Firm are always willing to jump in and help out, as needed.
20. Malpractice Insurance – The Firm’s malpractice insurance policy covers all its lawyers.21. Lexis Account – Lawyers are assigned a Lexis account for legal research.
22. Clubs and Organizations – The Firm joins organizations that its members can participate in for networking, learning, and fun, such as the Chamber of Commerce and Top Golf.
23. Free CLE and CME Seminars – The Firm provides free lunch and learn seminars on Fridays on a variety of topics, including practice management, marketing, IT and technology, mental health, practice updates, case law updates, leadership, business development, and mediation strategies. Specialty seminars are held on other days from time to time.
These products, supplies, services, and extra milers help us help lawyers reduce financial pains by reducing their costs and increasing their resources. We also stabilize their costs, contingent on their production, thereby eliminating the pain of monthly fixed costs during months when they oscillate down in monthly revenue. In addition, these products, supplies, services, and extra milers help lawyers reduce barriers, manage their files more effectively, efficiently, and competently, manage their relationships with clients, opposing counsel, and the courts more proactively, and reduce their feelings of incompetence and failure, giving them hope of a brighter future. They also reduce risks of malpractice, stagnation, depression, and anxiety.
Another benefit is the lawyers start to see gains in their wants and needs almost immediately. Their costs are stabilized for the first time in their careers and are dependent on their production, so when their monthly gross revenue oscillates down due to external factors, they do not have monthly practice expenses that are overwhelming. Their revenue increases due to added time to dedicate to their clients’ matters, internal referrals, co-counsel opportunities, and collateral sources of passive or semi-passive revenue. This leads them on a path to financial freedom. These gains are compounded by the extra time they have to work on themselves and spend with their family. The result is their knowledge, skills, and competence increases, thereby increasing their value to themselves, their families, and their clients. This is made possible by the increase in resources, services, products, and learning and leadership opportunities. In short:
We help lawyers increase their focus, competence, and reputation by providing products and services that help stabilize their costs, increase their resources, minimize their risks, and remove barriers. We also provide them with a family of colleagues and staff, forming a community that supports them without reservation. The resulting benefits are that they increase their net take-home revenue (and start to gain financial freedom), recapture time (increasing their flexibility to learn new things and explore new things), and live a more balanced and productive personal and professional life.
CALL TO ACTION
It takes time, focus, and energy to read, digest, and use the information I have provided. If you took the time to read it, I am confident you will take the time to do the exercises. If you take the time to do the exercises, I am confident you will make changes to your practice and you will improve. If you are the kind of person and lawyer I believe you are, then you are someone who I would love to get to know better to see how we can be of service to each other. If that road leads to us working together in one capacity or another, I would cherish the opportunity. If it leads to you joining our team, I promise to meet and exceed your expectations. Call me at 407-647-7887 or email me at attorneypersad@cplspa.com when you are ready to take the next step.
Tee Persad, Esq.
Founder and Managing Partner
CPLS, P.A.
Attorneys|Consultants|Mediators
The Solo and Small Firm Practitioner’s Dilemma
Solo practitioners (“Solos”) and small firm practitioners (“SFPs”) have similar job expectations, experience similar pains, and want similar gains. Therefore, they need similar resources and opportunities. Without these resources and opportunities, they experience difficulties in their professional and personal lives which may lead to taking unnecessary risks.
- Solos & SFPs Have Jobs They Have To Do Everyday
Solos and SFPs have functional, emotional, social and business jobs that they do daily. But they tend to focus the majority of their time and effort on the functional jobs, such as file management and administrative matters (accounting, billing, vendor management, employee management, etc….), and on doing the work required on their clients’ cases. However, the emotional, social, and business jobs are also important and often get pushed aside because there is no time left to tend to these jobs, or for the acquisition of the knowledge or development of the skills necessary to handle these important jobs. Solos and SFPs routinely struggle with effectively managing the relationships with key partners, such as their clients, court personnel, opposing counsel, and employees. They also have to manage stress associated with not having enough money, management responsibilities, marketing, technology, and file management. On top of it all, they also have to keep themselves and their teams engaged so that productivity remains consistent and boredom or complacency does not set in. Finally, when the workday is done, they go home and have additional functional, emotional, social, and business jobs at home. Often times these “home jobs” are subordinated to the functional “work jobs.”
2. The Pains that Solos and SFPs Experience Everyday
Solos’ and SFPs’ pains show up on the financial and non-financial costs of running their practice, the barriers to maximizing their potential, bad feelings and thoughts about their situation, and the risks they are forced to take.
Financial Pain. Most financial costs are usually obvious and range from minor costs for Solos who operate out of their home to full blown operational expenses for Solos and SFPs who operate out of a proper office with adequate staff, physical and electronic resources, and vendor relationships. The financial costs can consume up to 70% of a Solos’ or SFPs’ monthly gross revenue (averaged over a year) but normally fall between 40% and 60%, assuming a properly staffed office. While some Solos and SFPs expenses may be less than 40% of their average monthly gross revenue, they normally do not account for the non-obvious financial costs, such as opportunity costs. For example, they may be limiting their ability to attract clients who may be able to bring cases that are more lucrative, they may be missing internal referral revenue, and other collateral forms of revenue sources that larger firms integrate as a part of their operations. In addition, they may be missing collaboration opportunities with other lawyers that they know, trust and have a good working relationship with. When the obvious and non-obvious financial costs are factored into the formula, although the percentage they are taking home on average per month may be higher than 60%, it is likely a percentage of a pie that is relatively small. So, the effective monthly costs of their potential net revenue are usually much larger than they realize. If a Solo grosses $100,000.00 per year, and has minimal overhead of 20%, her take-home net before taxes is $80,000.00. However, when if you add in $50,000.00 of potential revenue lost for the same year, even if overhead was 40% of gross revenue, her take-home net before taxes is $90,000.00. Therefore, the value of the opportunity loss is $10,000.00.
The non-financial costs are also very painful to Solos and SFPs, and include stress caused by financial issues, lack of time, conflicts, clients, opposing counsel, courts, employees, and vendors. These stresses often times are the reasons why Solos and SFPs compromise the quality of their work and their future.
Pain from Roadblocks. Many Solos and SFPs run into roadblocks or barriers on a daily basis. The barriers to entry into their practice include financial and non-financial barriers. Financial barriers include, among other things, the high costs of rent, personnel, file management systems, supplies, and vendor services, all of which are critical to a productive practice. The non-financial barriers include lack of knowledge, skill, and adequate training in the following areas: leadership principles, management principles, business principles, psychology, communication, negotiation, and non-litigation conflict resolution. These road blocks are limiting to many Solos and SFPs, causing them to miss out on opportunities that may have a strong positive impact on their practice and lives.
Pain from Bad Feelings. Many Solos and SFPs feel like a failure, incompetent, and not good enough to compete with larger firms. They believe that their lack of resources causes the roadblocks they have, and that they are limited in their ability to grow and develop, and cannot be as competent as their colleagues in larger firms. After a while, they start to settle for what they believe is within their reach. These feelings and thoughts are limiting to many Solos and SPFs, causing them to miss out on opportunities that may have a strong positive impact on their practice and lives.
Pain from Difficulties they Experience. Many Solos and SFPs face challenges that their colleagues in larger firms never encounter. First, they have to be owner, operator, CEO, marketing director, IT director, personnel director, firm administrator, and accountant for their practice. This can consume 30% or more of their time. Second, because of their limited resources, they are unable to handle complex matters in their areas or practice. They may also not have the resources to adequately prepare for court hearing and trials; they may be perceived as being disorganized and unprepared. The result is that they have a difficult time doing their functional job to the best of their abilities. Third, because they are bogged down dealing with the functional jobs of the practice, they have a difficult time taking advantage of opportunities to work on interesting cases, advancing their practice, marketing themselves, and to grow and develop into the lawyer they envisioned in law school.
Pain from Unnecessary Risks. Solos and SFPs sometimes have to take what cases they can in order to eat; whatever walks through the door. The alternative may mean that they get no clients and that they stagnate and consider changing professions. So they choose to “wing it” or risk not being able to feed themselves and their families. The resulting pressures of daily practice may cause them to risk their reputation, compromise their ethical obligations, and increase their risk of committing malpractice, all of which may lead to depression, anxiety, alcohol and other drug abuse, alienation, and, at the extreme end, disbarment.
- The Gains That Solos and SFPs Want
Solos and SFPs are constantly searching for opportunities to obtain value or gain things they need to make their lives easier and more fulfilling; they also want to have their expectations met and are delighted when their expectations are exceeded. Some of the gains they consistently search for are:
- To increase revenue and lower costs
- To have more time for client development
- To have more sources of client development and marketing
- To have clients who nice to work for and pays bills on time
- To have clients who appreciate and promote them
- To have the administrative burden of practicing reduced
- To reduce financial and non-financial costs of practicing
- To have systems, and processes that help them be efficient
- To have procedures in place that will help reduce errors
- To be respected by their peers, clients and judges
- To be trusted by their peers, clients and judges
- To have flexibility to work from home or elsewhere
- To have human resources to help with functional jobs
- To have opportunities to contribute to a bigger cause
- To be a part of an group that offers a sense of community
- To be a part of a family away from home
- To recapture and maximize their time
- To improve their competence level
- To have more skills, tools, and resources
- To reduce their stress level
- To improve their personal and professional relationships
- To go on vacation free from the constraints of their practice
- To have their expectations met and exceeded
- To have certainty about their future
- To feel significant to themselves
- To have others recognize them as significant people
While there may be opportunities for Solos and SFPs to acquire some of these gains by partnering up with other Solos and trying to create a small firm environment where it is easier to pool resources, the smaller the operation, the less likely is it for these gains to be realized because the economies of scale are usually not available.
HOW DOES THIS RELATE TO YOUR PRACTICE?
Know your jobs & how to get them done the way they deserve to be done. I encourage you to take the time to think about the functional, emotional, social, and business jobs that you do every day, or that you have to do every day and do not get to. I recommend that you take a full day to think about this by yourself, and ask everyone who works for or with you to do the same. Then, get together to create a master list, then prioritize it and study. Ask your self and your team:
Are we doing all the jobs we need to do, to the best of our ability, with the resources we have available?
Then ask:
Is there a better way we can do our jobs by ourselves?
Then, finally, ask:
Is there anyone we can partner with who can help us do our jobs more timely, cheaply, effectively, and competently than we can do it?
This is a time intensive exercise. The more comprehensive the list of jobs, and the more detailed the job tasks and responsibilities are, the more thought provoking it will be, and the more you will get out of this exercise. Although this exercise is not particularly challenging, it deserves the time and effort of large blocks of time so that you can explore your practice deeply. This is not an hour or two hour exercise. It is a day long process that deserves your attention. This deep dive will give you the greatest insight in your functional practice and how it affects you emotionally and socially, and, how it affects how the business of your practice operates.
Know the pains you are experiencing and how to relief them without resorting to self medication. I encourage you to think about the financial pains you and your firm are experiencing. Then, think about the non-financial pains. Be specific about the pains, when you experience them, and how frequent they appear. Think about the costs of running your practice, the barriers you face, the feelings you have, the thoughts you have, the difficulties you experience, and the risks you take. I recommend that you take a full day to think about this by yourself, and ask everyone who works for or with you to do the same. Then, get together to create a master list, then prioritize it and study. Ask your self and your team:
Do we have the resources to minimize or eliminate these pains without resorting to drastic measures that may cause us greater pain?
Then ask:
Is there a better way to minimize or eliminate these pains than what we have been doing or what we plan on doing?
Then, finally, ask:
Is there anyone we can partner with who can help us minimize or eliminate these pains more timely, cheaply, effectively, and competently than we can with our limited resources?
This is a very difficult exercise for several reasons. First, it forces you to confront yourself and your team in a bold and strong way. It forces you to look at your belief structure and how you experience life as a practitioner. It challenges your implicit bias and it helps bring awareness to your cognitive dissonance. Second, it forces you to see how these pains affect you and your team. Some of them are visibly cancerous and affect your practice in specific, but manageable ways, while others are hidden and chronic cancers that have the potential to kill your practice. Finally, it forces you to face reality and seek the help you need before it is too late.
Know the gains you want and need. I encourage you to think about the gains that you want and need. Examine your expectations, your team’s expectations, your client’s expectations, the courts’ expectations, opposing counsels’ expectations, your family’s expectations, and the profession’s expectations. Think about savings that you would like to have. List the ways you measure success and what success looks like for you. Identify what will make your life easier and what would delight you. Note which ones are absolute needs and which ones are wants and note the difference. Be specific about what you want and need and why you want them or need them. I recommend that you take a full day to think about this by yourself and ask everyone who works for or with you to do the same. Then, get together to create a master list, then prioritize it and study. Ask your self and your team:
Can we get what we want and need with the resources (time, financial, relationships, physical, personnel, strategic partners, etc…) that we have now?
Then ask:
Is there a better or faster way to get what we want and need than using our resources or using them the way they are being used now?
Then, finally, ask:
Is there anyone we can partner with who can help us get want we want and need more timely, cheaply, effectively, and competently than we can with our limited resources?
This is an exercise that improves your vision of your future self and helps you see “your ghost of Christmas future.” What would life be like if you had everything you wanted and needed? Can you actually identify what you want and need? Can you actually get what you want and need? When you start consciously thinking about what you want and need, the natural tendency is for you to focus on your life’s purpose and how your professional life fits within that purpose. You begin to think about leading yourself and others with a purpose. This could well be one of the first step towards living a productive and fulfilled life and having a practice that serves you and helps you serve others in a way that not only benefits you and your clients, but also others that are affected by your work. This may be the beginning of you realizing the dream of being the lawyer that you had when you were a law student.
I HAVE DONE THE EXERCISE, NOW WHAT?
Whether you are a Solo or SFP, once you have completed the above exercises, use what you have learned to improve your practice. You can do this on your own, with your team, or with a coach. If you put the time and effort into these exercises, then you should see remarkable results on how you see yourself, your practice, and your role. You can also expect to notice shifts in your thinking and belief structure which will help you get more focused on what really matters. If you are satisfied with your progress, use these exercises repeatedly (at least once a year) to help you stay focused and on track.
WHAT IF I NEED MORE HELP?
Coaching Services. If, after these exercises you believe you need help, then seek out the help you need. If you choose, I will be happy to be your mentor and coach and help you through the process and give you other tools that will elevate your practice.
WHAT ABOUT JOINING A LARGER FIRM?
Joining CPLS, P.A. One alternative to trying to do it all yourself is to make a dramatic change by joining a larger firm that understands the issues raised in this article, and is wiling to commit to helping you maximize your potential. Our Firm, CPLS, P.A. is such a firm. Here is our Firm’s vision statement:
We help lawyers increase their focus, competence and reputation by providing products and services that help stabilize their costs, increase their resources, minimize their risks, and remove barriers. We also provide them with a family of colleagues and staff, forming a community that supports them without reservation. The resulting benefits are that they increase their net take-home revenue (and start to gain financial freedom), recapture time (increasing their flexibility to learn new things and explore new things), and live a more balanced and productive personal and professional life.
To learn more about how joining CPLS, P.A. can help benefit you, please e-mail me your resume and I will be happy to send you some confidential information about our Firm so that we can start the conversation. Here is my contact information:
Tee Persad, Esq.
Founder and Managing Partner
CPLS, P.A.
Attorneys|Consultants|Mediators
Wishing you the best in your professional and personal life.
Phone Number: 407-647-7887. E-mail: attorneypersad@cplspa.com. Bio: https://cplspa.com/team-members/tee-persad/